Hi! I'm Dominee, a little bit witchy, a little bit woo-woo, a writer, a mystic, an introvert, a (crazy) cat lady and I'm really passionate about encouraging people to love themselves.  I've created this online resource for all things self care, self love, body love, depression/anxiety relief, spirituality and more. I want you to know that if you're on the precipice of losing your mind - you aren't alone. If you feel like you're never going to look in the mirror and like what you see, I speak from experience when I say that one day you will - if you really want it and if you're willing to do the work to get there.

There is no greater tool for transformation than deciding that it's time to start loving yourself.

Read My Self Love Story to hear about how self care changed my life and had a huge impact on my depression and anxiety. If you're new to the concept of self care and self love then read this to discover what Self Love actually is. When you're done with that, I have tons of free stuff for you to download and print out and for over 600+ articles on self love, self care, spirituality, and more, grab a cup of tea and read the blog!

If you struggle with loving yourself, struggle with making time for yourself, and you want to learn how to make yourself a priority -  I suggest you buy my book. It's not just a book, it's a workbook, and when you fill it out - it will be filled with your own wisdom and insight. I can't make you love yourself - no book in the world
can - but I can help you open up your awareness, to examine and discover why you don't make time for yourself, why you feel unworthy, why you let other people treat you unkindly or why you treat yourself unkindly. Get it today and begin the work toward loving yourself.

 

Recent Posts

5 Self Love Languages
5 Self Love Languages
The 5 Love Languages is a book by Gary Chapman that explores how everyone has a preferred way to receive love from other people. Some people feel love from getting gifts, others from words,...
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Self Care Check-In: February 2017
Self Care Check-In: February 2017
We’re one week into February so it’s time to take a breath, take a step back, and give ourselves a little check-up by checking in. This is a wonderful opportunity to practice mindfulness and...
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Happy Imbolc! Here Comes the Sun!
Happy Imbolc! Here Comes the Sun!
February 2nd is the middle point between Winter and Spring and called a cross-quarter holiday. Some see it as the very depth of Winter, while others see it is the awakening of Spring. She’s starting...
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Self Care Tarotscope for February
Self Care Tarotscope for February
Happy (almost February!) Here are your self care tarotscopes for February! I used my handy dandy tarot deck (Everyday Witch Tarot) to pull a card for each zodiac sign on how you can best...
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Self Love + Self Care

What Do You Stand For?
What Do You Stand For?
Am I the only one that likes listening to loud, upbeat music first thing in the morning? It helps me enjoy getting ready for work. I was listening to Fun’s Some Nights and singing...
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Self Help Isn’t A Dirty Word
Self Help Isn’t A Dirty Word
A lot of people have mixed reactions about the term self help or self improvement. I embrace them. Wouldn’t it be great if we could all rely on each other and speak honestly about...
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Self Care: Blissful Baths
Self Care: Blissful Baths
Mornin’ darlinghearts! It’s Self-Care Sunday where I share with you something that I love to do to relax and pamper myself. I’m going to let you in on a little secret. I freaking love taking...
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How was your Self Care this April?
How was your Self Care this April?
Hello sweets! This is just a little check-in, a little reminder, to pay attention to where you are in your self care right now. Despite our best intentions it’s so easy to get distracted...
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6 Ways to love the job you hate
6 Ways to love the job you hate
If you’ve followed me for awhile (and I love you for that) you’ll know that I have a job other than this purty, shiny, website. I work overnights (10pm-7am) at a Walmart, stocking whatever...
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Depression + Anxiety

Why I love DBT
Why I love DBT
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a behavioral treatment that was created to treat Borderline Personality Disorder but is now being used to treat a whole host of mental illnesses. It’s a therapy that is designed...
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The Best Apps for Anxiety
The Best Apps for Anxiety
As you’ve read before (and here and here and here) Anxiety and I have been frenemies for 15 years now. At different times in my life, for different types of anxiety, different things work for...
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Self Care for Anxiety
Self Care for Anxiety
I have had anxiety for almost as far back as I can remember. In 6th grade, I vaguely remember my mom taking me to the doctor for the stomach aches that would, without fail,...
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Dolphin Magic
Dolphin Magic
So I decided to splurge a few weeks ago and get five new Oracle Decks and I am so excited to share their wisdom and words with you! This week’s message comes from the...
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Why I Need Rock Bottom
Why I Need Rock Bottom
Rock bottom. I’ve visited you a few times and every time the view changes. Sometimes I hit you hard and fast, with a big splat that takes the breath out of me and other...
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Emotional Self Care
Emotional Self Care
Emotions are a lot like being in water. When your emotions are overwhelming sometimes you feel like you are so helpless to do anything. You drown in the despair, the anger, the sadness, it...
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Body Love

Body Love Campaign
Body Love Campaign
Check out this loveliness: Body Love Campaign Take your hands over your bumpy love body nakedAnd remember the first time you touched someoneWith the sole purpose of learning all of themTouched them because the...
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Confession: I am an emotional eater
Confession: I am an emotional eater
“Emotional eating is the practice of consuming food — usually “comfort” or junk foods — in response to feelings instead of hunger.” I eat more when I am stressed. I eat more when I...
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Beloved Body Starts in 10 Days!
Beloved Body Starts in 10 Days!
I don’t know about you but once spring and summer roll around I get a little critical about my body. A bit of grumbling about the weight I’ve gained over the winter time, a...
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A little reminder!
A little reminder!
Making new year’s resolutions to get healthy and get in shape is a fantastic idea! However, remember to treat your body well and keep the self talk positive. Your body is not the enemy!
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Magic + Spirituality

Aromatherapy: Sweet Orange Oil
Aromatherapy: Sweet Orange Oil
I go through phases of my favorite essential oil. Sometimes it’s chamomile, oftentimes it’s lavender, I am a huge fan of lemon and also of it’s citrus-y cousin orange. Cheery, energizing, wake-you-up sweet orange...
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Chakra Work: Throat Chakra
Chakra Work: Throat Chakra
Have you ever been in a situation where you couldn’t speak your truth? Where you remained silent? Do you have trouble speaking your real feelings or speaking up for yourself? You might need to...
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The Magic of Forgiveness
The Magic of Forgiveness
There are a lot of ways to practice forgiveness and I mean a lot. Everyone forgives differently, every situation is different, and the feelings involved are different. Forgiveness is usually a process and usually...
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The Power of Positive Thinking
The Power of Positive Thinking
I’m a pretty happy-go-lucky person and I also deal with depression. I know both sides of the coin, how it feels when everything is amazing and how it feels when everything sucks. Even when...
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Magic Manifesting: Winter Solstice
Magic Manifesting: Winter Solstice
Hello sweethearts! You might have noticed that I’ve been a little quiet around the blogosphere. That would be because I am hibernating! I have my nice little Dominee-Cave and wonderful things are happening during...
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Oh What A Tangled Web…
Oh What A Tangled Web…
See that picture right over there? What’s your reaction? Are you thinking ‘Oooo, that’s so beautiful.’ or is your immediate reaction, ‘Omfg, where’s the spider!? KILL IT.’ Spiders have a pretty bad reputation, yet...
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