Let Others Help Themselves

Morning my heart-loves. Today’s card comes from Louise L Hay’s Wisdom Cards and it is something that I’ve wanted to talk about. “I can not learn other people’s lessons for them. They must do the work themselves, and they will do it when they are ready.” That’s a tough lesson for me. I want to help people. I want my loved ones to be happy. I also have to allow them to walk their own path. When they’re ready they will do the work, they will take care of their “stuff” it’s not my job to do it for them, as much as I may want to. This lesson reflects back on my word of the year, which is “boundaries”. Every day is a new experience. You see, I’m a bit of an empath. What is an empath? An empath is someone who is sensitive to another person’s feelings and…

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Why I’m A Bad Friend And What It Has Taught Me

The Golden Girls have been my favorite show for as long as I can remember. The friendship between all of the ladies is something that I have always wanted for myself and yet I don’t feel like I’ve ever been able to find it. I don’t know how to be someone’s friend and at the age of 25 it feels a bit late in the game to learn. Still, I yearn for the friendships that are seen on tv. Friends, How I Met Your Mother, Cheers – who wouldn’t want a group of lovable weirdos to go through life with? I’ve never had that and a part of me doesn’t think I ever will. Remember when I talked about accepting my weird? This is a day when it’s getting to me. You see, I am trying to work on my friendship anxiety. Friendships make me really anxious. I just don’t…

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